Tips from a family court expert or over 12 years. How to make sure your voice is heard - part 3 Don’t say “They don’t respect me.” Say “Despite agreeing to use email only, they turned up unannounced at my home on 2nd and 9th September, causing the children distress.” Don’t say “They never tell me anything.” Say “I was not informed about the child’s school trip on 18th June or their dental appointment on 22nd June”. Don’t say “They never let the kids call me.” Say “On 5th, 12th, and 19th Septembe